The weirdest thing is that people talk about “coming out” as if it’s this big momentous thing that only happens once while in actual fact it’s something that you do almost every single day every time you talk to a new person every time you’re in a new situation you’re constantly weighing your options, the ability to be your true self vs the advantages of being a false self and honestly it’s so fucking exhausting



listen, when i first got onto tumblr, girls took pride in “not being like other girls” and “just being one of the guys” and to see that whole thing change within the matter of a few years makes me so happy …seeing girls and non binary people become so fiercely protective of each other on the internet and in turn having that mentality bleed into every day life just warms my ice cold soul.